'You're not leaving much to the imagination': Wife Upset as Husband Posts Pictures of Her in a See-Through Dress, Despite Him Asking Her Not to Wear It to His Work Party

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    Font - Throwaway since there's some information that would make it clear who I am to anyone who knows me.
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    Font - Friday night, my husband (28M) and I (26F) went to a nice dinner hosted by my husband's company. The dinner was mainly to celebrate the great year he and his team had, so he was basically the center of attention.
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    Font - I purchased a new white dress for the night. When I put it on before we left, my husband told me that the dress was practically see- through and left nothing to the imagination. I looked in the mirror, and he seemed to be exaggerating, so I told him that it wasn't nearly as noticeable as he was making it out to be. You
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    Font - could sort of see the outline of my bra, but everyone wears underwear, and, unless someone was deliberately looking, it wasn't an issue. We went back and forth a bit I didn't have any other dresses that fit me, as I recently gained a bit of weight and haven't had a need to dress formal, he said he'd rather me dress more casually than wear that.
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    Font - After a bit of back-and-forth, he gave in and I wore it. We went to the dinner, I got to meet a lot of his co-workers and bosses, it was lovely.
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    Font - Afterwards, he wanted to make a post on social media about the night, and asked me to choose which pictures to include. I saw the pictures of me, and my jaw dropped the flash from the camera, and the lighting in general, made my outfit way more revealing than it looked in the mirror at home. You can see
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    Font - every roll, every freckle, it leaves almost nothing to the imagination. I was completely embarrassed, and told my husband not to post them.
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    Font - He told me that he has no pictures of him without me, so there's not really much he could post from the night. I asked him to photoshop my outfit a bit, to make my dress less revealing, and he said that he doesn't know how to do that.
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    Font - After an argument, I won and he agreed not to make the post, but he said he still wants to send some to his parents directly. And, I'm sorry Reddit, none of them look flattering, they make me almost look naked! He said, since his co-workers and bosses saw me like that, he should at least be able to show his parents as well. I
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    Font - feel like, since my husband agreed that the dress was too revealing, he should be understanding that I don't want him sharing pictures of it with family. His co-workers and bosses are one thing, I never have to see them again. But family is family.
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    Font - He thinks that I'm not being fair. In his words, I insisted on wearing the dress, and now I'm preventing his family from seeing pictures because of it. It's now Sunday morning and he's still not giving in. I want to just forget about the whole thing and move on, he seems to really want to share pictures of the night. I'm
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    Font - not sure what to do, whether I should give up and tell him to send it anyway to put it behind us, or whether I should stand up for myself.
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    Font - WhyCommentQueasy 17 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [19] You may not be wrong in keeping the pictures offline, but YTA. This was an important event for your husband. He pointed out the issue with your dress and asked you not to wear it. You wore the dress anyway so you got what you wanted. Then you see the pictures and surprise it's as he stated. You demand he doesn't share pictures and again you get what you wanted. He has every right to be frustrated. 10.6k Share
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    Font - HauntingAccomplice 16 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [34] I'm all for setting boundaries but honestly YTA . He told you before you ever left it was revealing. He told you to change. He explained why. Multiple times it sounds like. But you just HAD to be right and wore it anyway. I don't see how many of this is his fault now. 2.2k Share ●●●

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